Why is My Loved One So Emotionally Cold or Distant?
You probably have people in your life who, you know that they Love you, but you wish they would be more emotionally available.
You wish they would express themselves more. Or, that they would take your emotions and your feelings into account, and not shut you down.
The best explanation as to why they are the way they are is this truism:
A person can only Love you to a similar depth of which they Love themselves.
When your Loved One lacks a depth of Self Love within themself, for themself; they lack a deep Inner Well of Loving energy and positivity to be able to genuinely Love you deeply and expressively.
The same is True with you. If your Inner Well is shallow; or filled with self loathing, or self hate, or a lack of self acceptance, you don't really have a depth of Loving energy within yourself to extend to others.
So, in order to really Love other people genuinely and selflessly... you must fall in Love with Yourself first.
So you can possess a deep Inner Well of Loving energy to gift to yourself and to everyone you know, Love, and meet.
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Is Self Love the Greatest Love of All? — Whitney Houston, Jesus and You (Self Love Part 1)
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